I Am Taking My Body Back!!!

Ha! I know that sounds funny. For the past several years I have been in what seemed to be a continuous cycle of pregnancy, nursing, recovery repeat. Well. For the past year I have been in the habit of indulgence.

Now that I can no longer have kids I am working towards the body I want. Picking out exercises that focus on the areas I want to improve. Learning about my habits through logging my food, has been the most interesting part so far.

Building my strength and endurance by increasing my activity has been very rewarding. If you remember I have had some concerns with my heart for a year. Due to that I have become accustomed to little to no movement and indulging on feel good foods.

In August, I learned that I can move around with the heart issue. As a matter of fact one of my issues disappears as my activity level increases.

My husband, oldest daughter and I are competing with my parents and brother to see who can improve their health. We have all set goals and are working on them at the same time. We are cheering one another on as well as holding each other accountable. We are all doing this with Fitbit! have you heard of it?

This past week was our first full week. I lost 1 kilo. I feel so much better and can already do some things I couldn’t do 2 weeks ago. I can run a little, I can breathe and talk while walking, and in general I have less days where I feel my heart pulsing and I struggle for breath.

My husband and I have logged our food and eating salads for lunch. On most days I am drinking Green Smoothies after I exercise. It is really interesting to know what your body does with different types of food.

Here is a cool infographic I plan to put into action in my diet over the coming weeks. What do you think about it? I think some of the foods really do have that impact. I have noticed some significant changes in my body from eating more food with fewer calories.

Zero Calorie Foods That Help you to Lose Weight


Here is a shot of my best day this past week!

fitmedayWhat are some of your favorite health and nutrition tips? Do you have any advice for me?

He Is!

You know my heart and my concern for the people of the Ukraine. This is not the first time I have mentioned it. I find it hard to wrap my mind around the horrifying events that have occurred around the world this week. Terrible things are happening all around us. The unceasing loss of life in the Middle East. Sex crimes, broken hearts and hurting families. When will it end?

I feel numb, at times enraged and always confused about the things I am hearing and seeing on the news.

Innocent lives lost in a war they were not involved in. Countless children abused and misused by adults and other children. Fighting killing and wars that never end.

We live in a broken world.

It is hard at times to keep it together. Difficult not to let emotions get the best of me. I am sure many of you feel the same way.

Take heart, in this world there will be trouble.

We are not the ones to put an end to it.

We trust in the Lord, the one who will right all wrongs. the one who shelters us in his wings, and swoops down from on high in response to our prayers.

Tonight I will sleep knowing that HE is, the one who heals, saves and loves. He brings comfort and peace.

May you take comfort in that as well. I can’t undo what evil has done in this world, but I can stand up and praise the one who knows how to care for each one affected by the effect of sin.

To him I pray tonight!

Please, comfort, heal and bring peace. When the world seems to rage around us thanks you for calming your children even as things seem to fall apart!



Another Link in the Chain

A couple of weeks ago I was listening to Podcasts and reading through The How They Blog website. I found the lovely Deidra Riggs there. Her blog inspired me, I even watched a Ted talk she gave. She seemed like a kindred spirit! I was thrilled when she asked me to take part in this link up with her.

I really hope the answers to the questions will help give you a little more insight into who I am; as well as the direction I am traveling here in life and the blog.

What am I writing or working on right now? I have not been blogging as much lately, because I am working hard to be purposeful about life. I am working to better plan and prepare so I can put out quality posts. I have prayed about the direction I need to go with this blog. I feel a strong call for this to be the way that I share my personal journey with the Lord. For that reason I am really trying to transition towards more devotional and Biblical posts.

I already write about ministry over at Whispers In the Calm. My friend Holly and I started it to create a place for women in Missions and Ministry. That being said, many of the ways the Lord teaches and upholds me have to do more with my personal life and spiritual journey with him. Those things are often being missed.

I have written a couple of articles for Character First this year as well.

I just returned yesterday from a week at Church Camp where I taught the younger kids Bible Basics. This was my first attempt to write concepts I learned in English and teach them in German. It was an undertaking that humbled, blessed and helped me as much if not more than the kids.

i will now be working exclusively on building a more consistent and real posts. I will still include stories about our travels, recipe and creations.

My goal is to write devotionals that can be translated for the women and children who are in need of such resources in the countries we minister too. I have had an idea for a children’s curriculum for some time now. I feel it is not time for that now. I need to concentrate on encouraging women and mothers so they can feel strong in the Lord. This is the best way to help build healthy families and give kids the foundation they need.

How does my work differ from others in my genre? I think the main difference I can bring to this genre is the perspective I have gained from living in and being in multiple cultures. God works among the Nations in different ways, but he always remains the same. It is so nice to witness that. I am honored to witness it and eager to share that.

Why do I write what I do? I honestly started blogging because it is a way to share what our life is like, with those who ask. Then it became a fun and cathartic way to use my creative energy.

I have always journaled. It helps me focus, dream, think and heal. Under my bed are the stories of my life. I would like to share the lessons I have learned and the places I have been here as well.

How does my writing process work? My thought process can be confusing to others as my mind sometimes works a little like popcorn in the microwave. There are so many ideas popping up at one time. I do my best to capture the ideas so I can use them.

I am inspired by many things. When I am out and something inspires an idea, I try to write it down. Then I think about all the many ways I could communicate the idea. I often do this while I am out walking. I recite the things I want to say in my head. I imagine myself writing them, sharing them and even trying to communicate them in German. This helps me to think it through.

After that I just start writing. I am working to improve my grammar as well as learn the “rules of grammar in blogging”. After writing from my heart, I edit and make sure it makes sense.

3 bloggers…

So here are the bloggers I would like to introduce to you.

Katie and I are in a blogging group together on Facebook. She and I both have 3 kids, and she seems to have a taste for adventure like I do!

Hi everyone! My name is Katie and I blog at Simply Clean Living and Run Wild in Alaska. I work as a Special Education teacher and live here in Alaska with my husband and three kids!

Simply Clean Living is my where blog and Facebook page I share crafts, recipes, organization ideas, and more – with an emphasis on things that don’t require a lot of time, money, or space. Being a full-time working mom of three little kids can be time-consuming and stressful, but this blog shows some of the ways we keep our small house organized, and have fun together with the kids!





Recently I started a new blog called

Run Wild in Alaska.

 It focuses on my journey toward staying fit and healthy, and exploring different ways to stay active as a family while exploring our beautiful home of Alaska! Run Wild in Alaska is a brand-new launch, and I would love to meet some of you on Facebook over on the  Run Wild in Alaska Facebook page, and hear what sorts of things you do to stay active with your family in your home state!





Thanks for reading!

I met Phyllis through a blog link up.













I consider myself a faith blogger.  SP is my space for self-expression, to inspire, motivate and share experiential wisdom … to celebrate family, life, love and my faith. I’m a King’s Daughter, Wife, Mother, Grandmother. I want my life to be a testimony. I’m an encourager and I pray through sharing my life experiences, I am able to inspire others to live their best life. I’m social on Facebook,  and Pinterest.

Simply Phenomenal


~ Inspiration~Motivation~Sage Wisdom


Holly is one of my personal friends:

Holly Kooi

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She blogs at Comedic Grievances and started Whispers in the Calm with me.

Here she is in her own words:

I’m a coffee-obsessed, Beatle-loving 25 year old American expat who lives with my wonderful husband and crazy cat in Vienna, Austria. Together (cat included) we learn Austrian-German, love people and make a lot of embarrassing cultural mistakes.

Right now on her blog you can follow the last weeks of her pregnancy. She and her husband are in the States awaiting the visas they need to return to Vienna. In the meantime they are going to have a baby boy. I am excited for her to become a mom, and anxious for her return to Vienna.

I hope that you take some time to get to know my friends and visit their blogs as well.

I would like to hear from you. What do you write about? Do you journal? What would you like to see more of on the blog?



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This has been a recurring theme in my life this year. This is the question I ask myself all the time. I live in a different culture. Years after moving far away from the one I was raised in, still these questions pop up in my mind.

Where do I fit?

Who are my people?


Do they remember me?

Are they enjoying getting to know me?

Do they like me?

How long will it be until the loneliness fades?

Then I remember that I am HIS. The one who made me loves me and keeps me secure in the shadows of his wings. When I take time to look away from myself I see others surrounding me, also safe in his care.

I find community.

I remember.

I am HIS, a daughter of the King of Kings.

That is who I am, It is where I belong!


Five Minute Friday

The Importance of Standing By Friends in Need

friendsI don’t know about you, but I have so many hurting people in my life. I feel so helpless sometimes. I have 5 friends fighting Cancer for their lives right now. A few have a good prognosis, but a couple know their days are numbered.

I will never forget what it was like to hear that news. What a scary conversation, one that brings up so many fears and questions.

I have other friends who are in the middle of separations, divorce and betrayal. What a broken world we live in.

I watch my children make friends and reflect on my own life. I think a lot about friendships. The Bible has many examples of relationships. Today I am thinking of how to help someone fight a battle. I talked to 3 of my hurting friends this week. I want to do something to change something. I listen, and I ache for what they are going through. I think of many nice things I could do, knowing that they are a far reach from what my friends need.

Do you remember the story in Exodus 17:8-15?

The story of how Isreal defeats the Amalekites?

Israel Defeats the Amalekites

While the people of Israel were still at Rephidim, the warriors of Amalek attacked them. Moses commanded Joshua, “Choose some men to go out and fight the army of Amalek for us. Tomorrow, I will stand at the top of the hill, holding the staff of God in my hand.”

So Joshua did what Moses had commanded and fought the army of Amalek. Meanwhile, Moses, Aaron, and Hur climbed to the top of a nearby hill. As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage. But whenever he dropped his hand, the Amalekites gained the advantage. Moses’ arms soon became so tired he could no longer hold them up. So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on. Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset. As a result, Joshua overwhelmed the army of Amalek in battle.

After the victory, the Lord instructed Moses, “Write this down on a scroll as a permanent reminder, and read it aloud to Joshua: I will erase the memory of Amalek from under heaven.” Moses built an altar there and named it Yahweh-Nissi (which means “the Lord is my banner”). He said, “They have raised their fist against the Lord’s throne, so now the Lord will be at war with Amalek generation after generation.”

What a beautiful example of support. Standing beside someone when they need the help to stand. When I need to stand I know the one who goes before, walks behind and lifts me up when I can’t stand on my own. Not everyone knows him. I want to change that.

To some of my friends I am that person who can come alongside them and hold up their arms when they are too weak to hold on through the battles they face. I can also point them to the one who carries me through those times.

What a blessing to know the one who made all things. What an honor to share him with the world. The gift of Jesus is the most important thing we can give our friends. If they already know him, sharing his love is one way we can bless them.

What are the main thoughts you have after reading this passage and thinking of someone hurting in your life? In what ways can we practically stand by our friends?



Museum of Military History in Vienna, Austria

museumofMilitaryhistoryOne Hundred years ago yesterday an event occurred in Sarajevo that set off a chain of war declarations that started World War 1. Do you know what it is? Archduke Franz Ferdinand, and his wife Sophie were there to observe military maneuvers planned in Bosnia that June. They were shot and killed in their car after the driver realized he was headed to the wrong place. There had already been an attempt on their lives that day. The grenade intended for their car landed behind them. They changed their schedule to visit those injured. The driver didn’t know. He was turning around and the assassin was in a cafe, and took advantage of his second chance.

My husband loves history and this is his favorite museum. We decided to visit today to see if there was anything special due to the 100th anniversary of the death of Franz Ferdinand and his wife. They have a new display about WW1.

It tells the story from the Austrian perspective. I always enjoy seeing the many different uniforms and small details. As a painter I am always in awe of the massive paintings. I often wonder how they really pulled that off an oil painting takes a long time and that was long before colored photos. The painters were incredibly talented to capture and tell the stories of war in their artwork.

This museum is the oldest in Vienna. It was built along with the Armory. It’s purpose to show and preserve Austria’s Military history and accolades.  It was always intended to honor the people and victories of the Empire.

The building is beautiful. The entire complex is. Franz Joseph had it built as a new city garrison after the old one was destroyed in 1848. In the front of the building the canon collection is on display.


When you walk in there are columns made of statues in the likeness of the whose who in Austrian military history. It is a hall of generals.


The story of World War 1 is the exhibit we visited today. In addition to the featured exhibit; there are 4 different sections in the museum each focusing on a specific period of history and battles.

They have on display the uniform of Franz Ferdinand. It is what he was wearing at the time of his death. They also have the conch he died on and the car he was shot in.

A portrait of Franz Ferdinand when he was younger. You can see the reflection of a sketch of his wife in the top left. This is where his uniform, and the couch where he died were on display.


Here is the car.


And here are various photos I took today.


painting of Serbian POW’s

POW camp artifacts. This was how they printed camp money.

POW camp artifacts. This was how they printed camp money.

Belt buckles, and shoe decor donated when they needed more metal.

Belt buckles, and shoe decor donated when they needed more metal.

war scraps from dolomites

war scraps from dolomites

If you are interested in War and/or history be sure to check this museum out.

Here is a link to their website: Military History Museum of Vienna.

If you like to take pictures you have to pay 2 euro. They will give you a sticker and receipt that shows you are allowed.

You can get listening guides in English to guide you through the displays.

This is a well done museum. I highly recommend it.

What types of things do you look for in a museum?


Ten Things I Want to Say to My Kids!

I have reached a very overwhelming time in my life as a mom. I have a child in Jr High and 2 under the age of 5. I feel like I am in constant limbo. Keeping up with Doc McStuffins, Lego Chima and YouTube!

There are so many ways for children to receive information about the world and so many things competing for their attention. I want the things I need for them to know to take the foreground. It is difficult. I try to pass on the things I know to be important during bedtime and as we walk through our day.

Never the less I still feel there are things I want them to know and never forget.

I decided that this week I would write Ten Things I Want to Say to My Kids!. I hope you will take some time to do the same and link up!

  1. Knowing God is the most important thing you can do in life.
  2. I Love You. NO MATTER WHAT.
  3. You are precious and priceless in my eyes.
  4. Don’t be afraid to stand up for your beliefs. Be Proud of who you are and where you come from.
  5.  You can always find a blessing to smile about.
  6. Never give up. Work hard for what you want.
  7. It is never to late to learn from your mistakes.
  8. Learn to make the best of every situation.
  9. Take advantage of the opportunities you are given. Explore the world and have fun doing it.
  10. Keep moving forward. Learn from the past, but do not get stuck in it.

What are the 10 Things you would like to say to your kids?

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The Bees, Bob Marley and Me in Warsaw!

beesmoker I am not sure when my love for honey began. I never ate peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. I ate them with honey instead. I still do. I also feed them to my kids. I preferred honey over syrup on pancakes and still enjoy eating it. Some of the best honey in Europe comes from Hungary, Ukraine and Poland. Growing up in Colorado I think the best honey in the States comes from there.

I remember as a child going to the farmers market. We were always allowed to get honey sticks. They were sealed straws filled with flavored honey. My favorite was cinnamon.  When we lived in Oklahoma I used to buy them for my daughter at the farmers market in Edmond. The Orange there is very good.

I use honey for many things and had a unique opportunity to learn more about it when we were in Poland this past week.

We were in Warsaw. We went to the family’s summer home for a day. It is always a place that builds memories and relaxes me. I love seeing the distant relatives of my husband. There are several that still live and farm in the village. I learn so much about the family

We celebrated my daughters birthday with the family. We went fishing in the pond, visited the chickens and bunnies after picking strawberries!

My brother in law has started beekeeping. If you follow me on Instagram, you might have noticed that I enjoy trying to capture photos of bees on flowers. When My brother in law came out with the bee smoker. I grabbed my camera and went after him. My oldest followed out of curiosity. I had already taken some photos for him of his bees so he said wait you both will need a hat. So we got suited up and followed him.

While I can speak Polish I am by no means fluent. I understand 85-90% of the things I hear. Beekeeping words however are not a part of my vocabulary. My husband came along to fill in the gaps.

beehive  in Poland

It was fascinating. He is raising young bees for the first time. He had chosen queens for each hive and was looking on this day to see if they had accepted them. The first thing he showed us was how he had put the bee he chose into a capsule. If they accepted her they would set her free. In all of the hives they had been released. The first hive had somehow managed to pop the lid. The rest of them chewed through the capsules.

Then we looked for eggs and checked the progress of the hives they were building. In each hive he tried different things. It will never cease to amaze me how remarkably and skillfully planned out the world is. That bees were reared to create these perfect forms is awesome.

On the 3rd hive. I even held one of the honeycombs.

That day my mother and sister in law were packing up his first harvest of honey.  It was so fun to taste. It reminded me of the honey from the farmers market when I was a kid. Now I know I love the honey of young bees. It tasted amazing and of course we brought a jar home to Vienna.



He also gave me a honeycomb the bees made in a place he didn’t want them working and some beeswax for my hair. There are some great  benefits to eating honey!

  • honey lowers cholesterol
  • it boosts energy
  • if you eat local honey while traveling it helps prevent allergies.
  • it has antibacterial and antioxidant properties.


Here are some of the ways that I use honey. It is very healthy, and multipurpose.

  • Hairmask:I mix olive oil and honey. Put it in my hair and rinse out after 30 min.
  • Facemask:Combine equal amounts of plain yogurt and honey. Rub onto face in circular motion and leave on for 10 min. Then rinse.
  • Body scrub: I mix honey, bath salts olive oil and body wash to make my own scrub.

Naturally eat it….

  • I add a teaspoon to black tea with a squeeze of lemon. This is also great for colds and sore throats.
  • One of our families favorite ways to eat honey is on bread with cream cheese for breakfast. It is our standard breakfast in Poland.
  • Since we live in Austria and there isn’t brown sugar here I add I Tbsp of honey to a recipe with normal sugar as a substitute. Like in my Peanut butter cookies, oatmeal raisinoatmeal chocolate chip, or chocolate chip cookies.
  • When we were in Greece we learned to eat honey drizzled on yogurt and watermelon for dessert.
  • I use it to sweeten our nightly smoothies sometime.
  • It tastes so great on cornbread.
  • I also make my own honey mustard and honey bar-b-que sauces too. Just take 1 part mustard or b-b-que sauce and mix with 1 part honey!

So there is a little taste of my sweet adventure in Warsaw this past weekend. I hope you enjoyed it. Be sure to visit again to hear about my role in a Bollywood flashmob and the hunt for rose flavored Paczki.

I would love to hear your thoughts and thanks for stopping by!

Linking up to Sunday Traveler again!


Liebster Award 2014


I was nominated for the Liebster award by my friend Adelina. She blogs at Pack Me Too. I always learn something from her posts. Be sure to check out her blog. I am sure you will learn something new as well as add a few things to your travel list.

So here is how this works. Adelina tagged me and left a list of questions for me to answer so everyone can get to know me better. You can see her nomination and learn more about her here.


What is the story behind your blog – why did you start it and why that name?

I had a small blog earlier for my family and friends. People were always asking about what we were doing, where we were going and why. So I decided to get more serious about blogging. I had made things from scratch and talking about my recipes and things on Facebook. I started to get inquiries asking for me to share the recipes and other tips. I decided to use my blog as a way to share all things relating to our life.

Lately I have started to share more about our travels and where we live as I realized that people really don’t know much about that part of our life.  Now if you come to the blog you are likely to see places we have been, what we are eating and the new creative things I am into at the time.

You can find the story about how I named my blog here.


What kind of things excite you the most while traveling?

I can sum this up in one word. ADVENTURE. When I am completely honest. I am most happy in life when I am discovering, trying/tasting, and doing something for the first time. It excites me. I try to eat new foods, learn new skills and discover people’s stories when I travel.
How do you decide where to go?

At the stage that we are in our family life. Work determines the majority of our travels. we travel to network and build relationships with others in connection to our work. We also pick one special non work related trip each summer. We often travel with my parents on these trips. It is a great way to create memories and strengthen the bond between the kids and my parents who live in America.
Where is the strangest place that you’ve slept?

The first time I went to Rome I was 22, and traveling with 8 friends through Europe. We slept with like 20 other people in the hallway next to the bathrooms on an overbooked train. It was fun! There were guys playing the guitar and we were all sharing travel stories. Honestly we may have slept 2 hours total.
Which country do you think has the best food?

Wow! This is a difficult question. I love so many foods from so many places. I will have to go with Poland on this one because of all the emotional attachments that go along with my eating experiences there. My in-laws live there, and my mother in law is an amazing cook. When I get homesick for things it is often something she makes. When they come to visit she leaves the freezer and fridge stocked with gifts of food love. I have a special bond with Polish food for that reason. Also some of my favorite travel food moments were in Poland.
Who is the most interesting person that you met on your travels?

I met an old Croatian woman on my way home from Bosnia to Vienna in 2008. She lived in the states, was born and raised in Croatia but had raised her children in Vienna. We talked almost the whole ride, she took me under her wing. I was traveling opening day of the Euro cup. Austria and Croatia were playing one another. If you know anything about European Soccer fans I am sure you can imagine what this ride was like. She protected me, kept the guys in our area in order by getting on to them like all good European Grandmas do. By the time we arrived I had a couple recipes from her and the guys in front of us even carried our luggage off for us! Here is one of the recipes she gave me that is a family favorite of ours now!
When you’re not traveling, what do you spend most of your free time doing?

Exploring, eating and taking pictures.
If I were to go to your hometown (or where ever you are now), what would we see and do? And most importantly, what would we eat?

If you were to come to Vienna I would take you to my favorite park and to eat at a heurigen in Perchtoldsdorf. If you were coming and it was your first time to Vienna we would hit the normal sites like the Rathaus, Schönbrunn, Stephansdom and we would grab some food as we were out and about! There are many tasty things here.
What advice would you give to someone who is looking to travel around the world, or live in a foreign destination?

Be open minded. Be willing to try new things, learn new things and experience WHO you can be when you step out of your normal routine. It is exciting to discover yourself over and over. Take advantage of that opportunity!
Share a photo or a post that you’re most proud of.

Here is a recent post that has some of my favorite pictures from the past few months.  Here is one of the photos.


Here are my nominations:

Holly Kooi at Comedic Grievances. She is a truly special friend of mine!  We have known one another for years and now have the pleasure of living in Vienna together. We also started a blog together. Whispers in the Calm. You can find Holly there as well!

Angie @ Caswell Clan Correspondence Angie is a friend of mine. An Army wife who blogs about her life.

Ruth @ Gracelaced She is a blogger that inspires me to be authentic on my blog. I don’t really know her, but I truly want to. She is an artist like I am a Christian and a mother of several  adorable boys!

Margo at Guten Blog Y’all! I enjoy reading her blog and I think we have a lot in common. I bet we would get along well if we ever met in real life!

Tanisha @ My Knotted Life She is a DIY and Lifestyle blogger. I would like to get to know her better as well.

Ok now here are my questions:

  1. When did you start blogging and why?
  2. What is the meaning behind your blog’s name?
  3. How do you use your space on the blogosphere to impact others?
  4. What ways would you like to grow as a blogger in the next 6 months.
  5. What is the most important thing you have discovered since blogging.
  6. Where would you go if you could go anywhere in the world?
  7. What one piece of advice do you have about living a good life?
  8. What/who inspires you?
  9. What would you like to learn to do in the next year?
  10. Share your favorite recipe.
  11. Share your favorite travel experience.

Ten Songs that Represent the Soundtrack of My Life!

songs, link up, soundtrack, lifeSo we meet again on another Thursday. I realize it is already late in the day. I have been sick this week. I am felling better, but running behind on many things. I apologize for that.

At any rate… this week we are sharing ten songs that would be in the soundtrack of our life. This is based on the post I wrote about the song Lieder by Adel Tawil. I have had so much fun listening to songs, and remembering moments of my life. I will introduce them to you in a similar way. I will share some of my stories. I hope you will play along. Write a similar post and link up!

Are you ready?

Picture this, a closet that has been made into a turntable, speakers, record player and tiles of awesome 70’s mirrored glass to cover the front. Every night before bed it blasts Beetovens 5th by Walter Murphy! Thats right folks the disco remix of Beetovens 5th was my very first favorite song. I listened to it on repeat and danced until I passed out. So began my musical life!

Motown played a huge part in my early life. Sugar Pie Honey Bunch, Mercy, Mercy Me, Let’s Stay Together, and many more were all a part of my normal life. I remember laying in the back seat of my dad’s 1969 Mach 1 Black and Gold Mustang and listing to Marvin Gaye sing What’s Going On. I loved the parts when you could hear the people talking in the background. I always pretended I was at their party too!

When we were in my mom’s car we always listened to Al Jarreau sing After All. He was also a standard on any road trip right along side Santana’s Black Magic Woman. Aw good times. This is where my love of travel and road trips began. (I am counting these as 1 so we are at 3 now!)

Naturally I eventually branched out and had my own favorites. I was pretty eclectic from the start. I had my Jazz favorite from the time I heard Harry Connick Jr sing Recipe for Love. 

I was a huge fan of Sade. No one else knew her but I liked her so much I even cut my hair to look like her. I can’t remember a time where I didn’t like her. She wasn’t popular in my circle of friends but her music was one of the constant companions in my life. Part of it was I could always sing along with her. The other is the jazzy sound that I just love. Is It a Crime?


Music videos came to be when I was 6 years old. This took my love for music to the next level. Now I could see the people while they were singing and I started to develop music crushes. Most of my friends were into Wham, but I was in love with DeBarge (El to be specific) I used to pretend he was singing to me in You Wear it Well. 

Pretty much everyone else liked Michael Jackson, but I was more a fan of his little sister. I listened to her on repeat for weeks.  Janet Jackson’s Control album was so timely for me. I related to it so much. I was 11 starting to like boys and had already seen enough of my friends hurt by them so Nasty Boy and He Doesn’t Even Know I’m Alive were right on time.  Along with Jody Watley, Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam and others I gathered a playlist for dealing with relationships.

I realized that music could not only help me through difficult times but also brings people together to inspire and support one another. I loved the We Are the World collaboration. I have also always been a fan of Bob Marley and appreciate the impact he had on music and society.

Later in life after an abusive relationship, and a few rough breakups I had a collection of songs that carried me through those times as well. Most of them were albums. Shania Twain’s Woman in Me and Come on Over, and Lauryn Hill’s Miseducation of Lauryn Hill really seemed to hit the nail on the head at these times in my life. Lauryn Hills I Used to Love Him is the single song that sums up that part of my life the most.

Another Artist who has weaved his way in and out of my life is Prince. When I had cancer his Musicology album and greatest hits were my theme songs on the way to and from Chemo. The song I listened to the most was Sometimes it Snows in April.

Truth be told if I were to really write about all the songs that have impacted my life i would need it to be a series and it would have several “books” by theme.

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